Brendon McCullum, who is a great favorite of the New Zealand cricket fans and, as of 2025, the head coach of the England Test team, is very much admired for his fearless play. Off the cricket pitch, which is out of the public eye, a mainstay of his private life is his wife, Ellissa McCullum. Known for her support, down-to-earth personality, and family dedication, Ellissa has played a key role in Brendon’s life both on and off the field. Here is a look at her life in 2025.
Early Life and Background

Ellissa McCullum, before that was Ellissa Arthur, was born and brought up in New Zealand. Very private person by nature, she has always kept her past, her youth, and her studies out of the media. Though married to one of the world’s top cricketers, which should bring her into the media in the first place, she prefers a quiet life and keeps out of the media’s way.
Although we don’t have much information on her academic background, close friends report that Ellissa is very intelligent, warm, and family-oriented. What stands out to me is how down-to-earth she is, which is why Brendon often refers to her as his “biggest support system.
Marriage to Brendon McCullum
Ellissa and Brendon McCullum tied the knot in 2003, which was before he shot to global cricket stardom. Their relationship weathered the ups and downs of Brendon’s international career, which included his aggressive batting phases, his time as captain, and later his shift into coaching.
Their marriage is a point of often-cited stability. While Brendon was out for long stretches due to cricket issues, Ellissa ran the home. She balanced what came her way with grace. Also, according to Brendon, it was her emotional strength that helped him stay focused at a key point in his career.
Family Life: A Sound Base.

As of 2025, the McCullum family will be the proud parents of three children: two sons, Riley and Braith, and a daughter, Maya. In that time, Ellissa has taken on a very active role in their upbringing, which includes instilling in them the right values, discipline, and freedom.
The family home is in New Zealand, but due to Brendon’s coaching duties, they are a traveling family between New Zealand and the UK. Ellissa does an amazing job at maintaining that which is routine for the kids in this ever-changing environment, which Brendon is always talking about.
Ellissa McCullum’s Personality and Interests
Ellissa has a very elegant yet simple persona. Reportedly, she is a very caring, very empathetic, and also a very private person. Unlike many of her celebrity peers, she doesn’t do interviews, public events, or social media. What you don’t see of her on the outside is that it has allowed the McCullum family to keep a low profile despite Brendon’s fame.
She is into outdoor activities, travel, and also very much into quality time with her family. Born into a cricket-mad home, while she supports Brendon’s interest in that world, which does include the competitive aspect, she is not one to jump into public disputes or controversies.
Life in 2025: Support, Stability, and Equilibrium.

In 2025, Brendon is still at the head coaching post for England’s Test team, which sees Ellissa in the background as a constant support. The transition from player to coach brought on different sets of responsibilities and very intense schedules, which Ellissa has, in fact, handled very well.
While Brendon runs the team strategy, training camps, and overseas tours, it is up to Ellissa to keep things at home in order. She reports splitting her time between New Zealand and England, whichever of the two the kids are in for school, or whichever of the tour schedules brings Brendon home.
Even though she keeps out of the media, she is a regular in the stands at big matches where she supports her husband’s team with quiet confidence.
Conclusion
Ellissa McCullum may not be a public figure, but what she brings to Brendon McCullum’s life is immeasurable. Her constant support, affection for the family, and choice of simple living are what make her an inspiration. In 2025, she will be at Brendon’s side, still providing the support, strength, and balance as he takes on what is the world’s most demanding role in cricket.